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This is about regretting a one night stand because the event painted the narrator as someone who wanted a conquest instead of a deeper relationship. I had a friend recently tell me about a situation like this, where the woman wanted to have the one night fling, and he didn’t want to start off the relationship that way.

This one took a while to write—it was a hard topic to try to fit into a song structure.

We took off “Overindulge” this week. Thanks for listening.

This one was posted first in March, 2016.

This one is unquestionably the most Elton John-y thing I’ve ever written.  I knew it from the second I started it, and I just decided to follow it.   I think it would be right at home on his first album (and probably played better).

I wrote this one while I was out of work a number of years ago, in the latter stretches before getting an offer.  At the time, I was clearly contemplating what mistakes I’d made to put myself in that position, and how to gain some redemption.   I don’t think it was conscious when I wrote it but, in retrospect, I think all that bled into the song.

I actually finished this one on my first day of work at my new job.   My day of hire was an earnings call day, and bringing me in that day was just pure silliness (that should’ve told me something right there).  They sat me alone in a conference room, with a copy of the employee handbook, for two hours, while they addressed fire drills.   I used that time to finish these lyrics.

I’m sure a couple people would argue I should’ve studied the handbook more…

Happy birthday Harry! Harry’s the white dog on the front of the site, who would have turned 18 today. And Hogan’s fourth birthday- (he isn’t pictured on the site yet,) but he joined the family a few months before we lost Harry in October 2020.

We took off “He Can Change Your Life” this week. Thanks for listening.

I feel like I should say something this week because there’s no question that Petty was one of my top 5 influences. You can hear it in my vocals, you can see it in the structure of bridges in my songs—I see it all over the place. I adored his first five albums from start to finish (yes, even Long After Dark). The early-era Petty—feisty, fighting for his existence—was glorious.

In his last interview, he talked about being an artist. “It was about something much greater. It was about moving people…I really believed in rock-n-roll. I believed in it in its purest sense, its purest form.”

I hope some of the spirit of that quote comes through here on this site. I can safely say this site doesn’t exist without that man.

We’re about to move into a new year, which means we’ve hit the one year anniversary of what we deem the official “launch” of the site. We’ve posted 37 songs so far, and there are a lot more to go (headed to 150+, I hope). For those that are sticking with it, I really appreciate the support, and I hope you’re enjoying the songs.

As an FYI, this is the sparkline of traffic for the last year, relying almost solely on word of mouth:

 

 

Considering that someone only needs to come to the site once every 20 weeks…I think we’re holding our own. If we could add about two orders of magnitude to the underlying numbers, we might have something.

Seriously, though…thanks again. This site has been ridiculously healthy for everyone involved.

On my continued tour of places I haven’t been to…I was in Fargo, North Dakota for a night (I saw the wood chipper!). Richard Marx was playing the Fargo theatre two blocks away, and I wound up on an elevator with him at the hotel. I didn’t even know he was in town—I never looked at the concert line-up.

As I was headed to the lobby bar that night, I realized I left my iPad upstairs in my hotel room. So, I was out in the lobby, turned back around, and then went to get on an elevator to go back up. At the same time, Richard and another man with him were in the lobby dealing with fans, and then they went to the elevator as well. They got on first, and I walked on without needing to stop, right in stride. But…to them…it probably looked like I saw him, turned around, and chased him.

It was just the three of us. About half way up, I realized I had one last “gregorsongs.com” business card in my wallet (I’m out of stock). Should I give it to him? I already look like a stalker. This probably won’t go well.

I stepped out on the 9th floor with them, which was not my floor (and not his floor, as they were doing the get-out-and-then-get-another-elevator-to-go-to-the-actual-room routine). I gave him a card. He was polite. But…clearly…this has happened before.

What Richard was thinking: “I knew we shouldn’t stay in the only three star+ hotel in downtown Fargo. This is what we get. Everyone knows where I’d have to stay. This guy lives here and he’s been waiting for this moment for months. This sucks.”

What I was thinking: “I just handed my card to a guy that’s sold 30M records, and is known in the industry as a songwriting guru. Did I just lose control of my stuff?” Sure I have copyright control of these things…but you can change lyrics and chords. Who knows what it triggers.

My hunch is….the card was tossed before he got to his actual floor. But…I regret it. I should’ve left him alone.